Monday, November 18, 2013

Always Striving, Never Arriving


At certain stages in our lives, it may feel like we are always striving and never arriving … as if something better is just around the corner, but we can never quite get there.

No matter where you are, what you do or whatever your circumstances, you are always with yourself.  And what does that mean?  To be with yourself means feeling life and experiencing all of its ups and downs.  The burdens, the guilt, the weariness, the isolation and the sorrows of humanity … but also the joys, inner peace, love, laughter, happiness and sheer blissfulness of being alive.

At different times in your life, you may look to organisations, religions, associations, family, friends and other people to help you find yourself.  You may keep looking for answers which never come.  Sometimes the racing mind never stops, it just gets faster and faster, constantly buzzing like an electric pylon, leaving you tired and confused.  Should I go left or right?  What am I doing wrong?  Am I any good at anything as nothing seems to be working out the way I thought it should.  The answers never come, as the noise in the head drowns out the sound of inner knowing, truth and peace.

So how to stop the noise?  The first step is to accept that you are doing your best, regardless of any outside pressures.  This acceptance helps to release tension, like the value on a pressure cooker, and creates more space for new ideas and new outlook.  And just as importantly, it gives you hope.  In this simple act of self-acceptance, you can start to see how the small pleasures in life can bring you much joy.

On finding yourself, you lift the pressure and tension from your head, shoulders and heart.  The mind stops racing, it starts to listen to the body, and the body starts to respond to the more positive thoughts in the head.  Small pleasures become a great joy.  Finding yourself and doing simple things which bring you joy is your lottery ticket to health and well-being, and makes your journey through life a wonderful adventure.

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